When You Share Children

The handover, the hour after it, and keeping the practical apart from the personal.You have to speak every week whether either of you wants to or not, and the handover is never just a handover. Keeping the practical separate from the personal, what is still available to you, the first fourteen days, and the words for it. It ends with a read telling you how much of this is the arrangement and how much is the two of you.Who it is for You have to speak every week whether either of you wants to or not The handover is never just a handover, and the hour afterwards is worse than the handover You want the children kept out of the middle of it and you are not certain how What it does Keeps the practical and the personal apart, which is the whole job in this situation Gives you a handover that costs you less, and a plan for the hour after it Fourteen days built around a schedule you do not control Gives you the words for the conversations that recur, so you are not improvising them each time Ends with a read separating how much of this is the arrangement from how much is the two of you