Polywise: A Deeper Dive Into Navigating Open Relationships by Fern & Cooley - Non Fiction - Paperback

Details: Condition: New Format: Paperback ISBN: 9781915590602 Publisher: Scribe UK Overview: Polywise is the follow-up to the bestselling Polysecure, moving beyond the early excitement of opening up a relationship to tackle the deeper, recurring challenges that surface further down the road. Written by psychotherapist Jessica Fern alongside restorative justice facilitator David Cooley, it offers a compassionate, research-grounded framework for working through jealousy, broken agreements, and communication breakdowns. This paperback edition is essential reading for anyone — individual, couple, or therapist — seeking a sustainable, emotionally intelligent approach to consensual non-monogamy. About the Book: As polyamory and consensual non-monogamy become more visible, many people find that the initial thrill of opening a relationship gives way to harder, more persistent difficulties: recurring arguments, unresolved jealousy, and a nagging sense that something deeper still needs addressing. Polywise picks up exactly where introductory guides leave off, drawing on a grounded theory approach built from real client experience rather than abstract theorising alone. Jessica Fern, author of the acclaimed Polysecure, teams up with restorative justice facilitator David Cooley to examine the patterns that shape how open relationships succeed or struggle over time. Together they unpack attachment wounds, codependency, communication ruptures, and the practical work of repair — giving readers both a conceptual map and concrete tools to apply. The tone throughout is warm and non-judgemental, closer to sitting with a trusted therapist than reading a dry academic text, while remaining rigorous in its use of case studies and psychological insight. Readers are guided through common pitfalls many polyamorous people encounter once the honeymoon phase has passed, and shown how to turn recurring conflict into growth, honesty, and closeness. Whether newly exploring non-monogamy, long established in multiple-partner relationships, or a therapist supporting clients, Polywise offers a thoughtful, evidence-informed companion for the journey. Key Benefits: Written by a psychotherapist and a restorative justice facilitator with extensive combined client experience. Moves beyond introductory polyamory advice to address deeper, recurring relational challenges. Practical strategies for jealousy, boundaries, codependency, and communication repair. Grounded in real case studies rather than abstract theory, making the advice easy to apply. A natural follow-on read for fans of the bestselling Polysecure. Ideal for therapists, individuals, and couples exploring or established in open relationships. About the Author: Jessica Fern is a psychotherapist, public speaker, and trauma and relationship expert whose international private practice supports individuals, couples, and people in multiple-partner relationships; she is also the author of the bestselling Polysecure. David Cooley is a professional restorative justice facilitator whose work centres on conflict resolution and community repair, bringing that expertise to bear on the relational challenges explored throughout Polywise. Together, their combined clinical and facilitation backgrounds give the book its distinctive blend of psychological depth and practical, actionable guidance. Why You'll Love This Book: Honest, compassionate, and grounded in real client experience, Polywise gives non-monogamous readers permission to go deeper — offering genuine tools for building trust, resilience, and lasting connection. Please Note: Item shown may vary slightly from the pictured cover edition; UK ISBN and UK edition cover as stated.