When They're Seeing Someone Else

What someone new does and does not tell you, the instincts to stop before they cost you, and the words with no jealousy in them.There is someone new in the picture and every instinct you have right now is the wrong one. What it usually means and what it does not, what is still available to you, the first fourteen days, and the words for it. It ends with a read telling you how much of this is them and how much is the two of you.Who it is for There is someone new, and you have looked at more of it than you should have Every instinct you have is telling you to act, and you suspect all of them are wrong You want the truth about what this means rather than comfort about what it might not What it does Tells you what someone new usually indicates and, more usefully, what it does not Stops the specific behaviours this situation pulls hardest for, which are the ones that make it worse Fourteen days for the attention you are currently spending on them Gives you the words for it, with no jealousy, no leverage and no mention of the other person Ends with a read separating how much of this is them from how much is the two of you