Claim your special VIP pass to a month of electrifying play and intimacy for just $165 which saves you $72 (30% off) the whole set instead of purchasing individual items! Unlock every live workshop I host in July and get on-demand access to recordings so you can learn, practice, and revisit at your own pace. Whether you want skill-building and techniques, safer-play frameworks, or deeper emotional and relational skills, this pass gives you full access to a the whole month of powerful, consent-centered BDSM and sexuality training. If you purchase this pass after any of the scheduled live class dates, you will be sent the recordings, slideshows, handouts, and other resources to view at your convenience. What you get: - Live attendance to every workshop (join Q&A and community). - Unlimited access to recordings after each session. - Resource packets, safety checklists, handouts, and guided exercises for each topic. - A supportive, inclusive learning environment for all experience levels. This month’s lineup: - 7/1 Co-topping: Elevating Play through Shared Power - 7/7 Unlocking Euphoria: Navigating Subspace Together - 7/9 Blurring the Lines: Consensual Non-consent - 7/13 Tit for Tat: Make Them Moan and Scream - 7/16 Silent Surrender: Advanced Breath Play - 7/21 Boundaries and Beyond: Playing with Triggers - 7/23 Passionate Entanglement: The Dynamics of Rough Body Play - 7/30 BDSM as a Healing Space: Techniques for Trauma Survivors Who this pass is for: - Curious beginners wanting a comprehensive introduction - Players refining technical skills and safety practices - Partners, dungeon professionals, and trauma-informed practitioners seeking deeper tools for erotic connection and healing Reserve your pass now and dive into July with confidence. Class descriptions: Co-topping: Elevating Play through Shared Power This workshop stands as a comprehensive journey into both the technique and art behind shared dominance in dynamic play scenarios. Whether you’re a lifestyle or professional Dominant, imagine stepping into a space where collaboration and communication blend seamlessly to create a harmonious, yet powerful play experience. Our time together is designed to guide individuals through the intricate aspects of co-topping, emphasizing the importance of negotiating the scene, ensuring every voice is heard and every intention is clear. Participants will learn all about the magic of topspace and how to navigate and achieve that alongside others who share your role. Discover how to harness the unique energy another top brings into a scene, amplifying the overall experience and creating a more engaging encounter. Gain invaluable insights into handling the extra dynamics introduced by additional participants, such as how to effectively utilize those “extra fingers” in ways that enhance rather than overwhelm the interaction. Let’s discuss juggling different limits and boundaries for numerous participants to ensure consent throughout. Within this class, we’ll help you to create a loose plan to follow and how to adapt along the way. Whether there’s two, three, or even more tops, this class will help you in the ways of creating a lasting memory for all involved. Let’s explore further with topics including: - Strategies to prevent and resolve emotional challenges such as managing jealousy - Innovative forms of play, including fun and engaging predicament play - Bottoming techniques specific to multi-top scenarios - Mindful aftercare for multiple bodies - How to get on the same page discussing goals and intentions for the experience - Pre-scene rituals for the group to connect and align everyone - Ways for tops to check-in with each other’s energy and comfort levels - Dynamic live demonstrations Unlocking Euphoria: Navigating Subspace Together This class is designed for folks who wish to deepen their understanding and techniques around nurturing the ideal headspace for their partner, whether they identify as a submissive or not. Have you witnessed BDSM scenes where the receiver looks floaty and the most amazing serene look crosses their face? It is one of the most satisfying things a Dominant can experience. If you are curious about how to help your bottom experience this lovely altered state or want to add some new tricks to your bag, this workshop is the one for you. Learn about the neurochemical changes involved like the release of endorphins and the impact on mood and perception. We will discuss the wide variety of ambiances to set for yourselves and how that can enhance your experiences. Building the right environment can play a huge role from the physical settings, emotional preparation, cues, and everything in between. Discover the ways that stepping into your submissive role can offer escapism and personal insight as well as your responsibilities in making it happen. By the end of our time together, regardless of how you identify, attendees will have practical strategies and theoretical knowledge to guide their partners or prepare oneself for falling into a fulfilling submissive mindset, including the coveted subspace. Other topics to be discussed will include: - 10 intoxicating ways to warm up your partner - Recommendations for products to help create the atmosphere you want - Emotional states experienced by submissives and how to navigate and nurture them - Negotiations and the role they play in setting the tone for your scene - Dropping from play and how to combat it - Rituals for before and after to solidify your bond - Plus exciting demos Blurring the Lines: Consensual Non-Consent: An exciting taboo workshop that will take you down a rabbit hole like no other. In this workshop, we invite you to explore the vibrant interplay between boundaries, trust, and imagination. Delve into the complexities and nuances that encompass CNC, where traditional ideas of consent are redefined to allow for intense and transformative experiences. Did you know that over half the population fantasizes about these types of encounters? Whether you're just discovering these desires or ready to deepen your understanding, our time together will offer you the knowledge and support you need. Uncover fun and playful ways to dip your toes in, making it less scary and more connective. Gain the confidence and language to discuss this type of play with your partner, ensuring mutual respect and enthusiasm. Let’s examine why consensual non-consent can be alluring and how it psychologically impacts those who engage in it. Discover practical strategies to keep everyone emotionally and physically safe. This class is a dynamic blend of education and empowerment, offering participants a safe space to embrace these alternative forms of affection. Join us as we blur the lines with care, intention, and creativity, paving the way for profoundly intimate and arousing adventures. Expand further with topics including: - 7 ways to incorporate CNC into your sexual or play scenarios - Strategies for handling unexpected challenges gracefully - Maintaining the flow of a scene while using safe words or checking in - Understanding shadow play and its potential for healing and empowerment - The importance of aftercare and how to connect afterwards - Techniques to manage emotional intensity and vulnerability for everyone involved - Engaging live demonstrations to show practical skills - And much more! Tit for Tat: Make Them Moan and Scream Have you ever wanted to help your partner achieve more pleasure and powerful orgasms through touching their chest? Maybe your partner doesn’t typically react when you play with this area. We’ll go over ways to heighten sensitivity, turning ordinary moments into mind blowing experiences. Also, gain tips on how to cater your approach if your partner is particularly sensitive or apprehensive about breast play. In this engaging workshop, you'll discover that there's so much more to this type of play than just focusing on the nipples. You’ll learn how to engage with the entire area, revealing a treasure trove of erogenous zones just waiting to be explored. Our time will open the door to a vast array of techniques and tools tailored for all bodies and preferences. Let’s talk about the different types of clamps available for varied levels of intensity. Dive into creative ways to arouse your bottom and make them squirm. Playing solo? We’ll arm you with ways to engage in sessions by yourself that may just surprise you. We will discuss safety considerations while being inclusive of everyone who has breasts, not just cis-women! Here are just a few highlights of what you can expect to gain: - Innovative ways to use your mouth to create a variety of sensations - Stimulation with electro play toys - Incorporating chemicals that can enhance your experience - Effectively and safely explore bondage for all chest sizes - Playing sadistically with this area of the body - Exciting live demonstrations that will illustrate techniques and enhance understanding - And much more! Silent Surrender: Advanced Breath Play This is designed for very experienced kinksters who wish to explore the psychological and physical intensity of extreme breath play. Moving far beyond simple hand-over-mouth methods, this class delves into edgier forms of asphyxiation and playing with the inherent fear that comes with them. This requires advanced technical knowledge, rigorous safety protocols, and sophisticated negotiation skills which you will gain within our time. Participants will learn not only how to execute these activities with precision, but how to manage psychological triggers and trauma responses. Uncover the dangerous truths of hypoxia, aspiration, dry drowning, and other risks as well as how to mitigate them. Discover how to build scenes that push boundaries while maintaining empathy and care. Let’s discuss the ways physical recovery and aftercare may be affected while making sure everyone’s well-being is prioritized. We will go over subspace and other altered states of consciousness that take place during oxygen deprivation. Attendees should have solid foundations in BDSM and basic breath control before exploring these advanced concepts. Dive deeper with topics including: - Early-warning signs of trouble - Waterboarding, drowning, bagging, gas masks, and more - Tapping and other effective forms of safe gesturing - Aiding your time with hoods and other sensory deprivation tools - When to call emergency services and what to say - How positioning can influence your experience - Timing your scenes to reduce the risk of cumulative oxygen loss - Incorporating vacbeds and other extreme bondage - Recognizing distress signals - Intense demonstrations with comprehensive practical steps Boundaries and Beyond: Playing with Triggers In this thought-provoking workshop, we will delve into the essential skills and knowledge necessary to navigate sensitive and high-stakes scenes ethically and in a trauma-informed manner. Attendees will learn how to effectively negotiate, ensuring all parties feel heard and respected before, during, and after play. We will emphasize the importance of mental preparation, trust-building activities, and readiness to engage in this type of edge play successfully. Our time will guide you through recognizing when to pause or stop a scene and incorporate comforting, grounding exercises to support emotional stability. Expect in-depth discussions on the psychological effects of these experiences, including how to handle complex emotions and trauma responses such as dissociation, fight, flight, fawn, or freeze. We will explore how to identify and discover personal boundaries, as well as how to incorporate triggers intentionally and responsibly within scenes to enhance the impact without causing damage. There will be conversations about how to approach these topics with sensitivity, ensuring someone isn’t coming from a place of self-harm. This class aims to empower folks with the tools, awareness, and confidence to create a space for exploration that prioritizes emotional and physical safety. Explore with more topics including: - How to face fears and understand motivations behind playing in this realm - Recognizing signs of distress and other nonverbal cues - Importance of informed consent when flirting with the edge - Toeing the line between pushing limits and crossing boundaries - Shadow play; what it is and how it can foster growth and connection - Navigating reactions including the risk of being triggered as a top - Addressing the emotional aftermath and ensuring comprehensive aftercare - Ways to express empathy and compassion during these experiences - Exploring emotional masochism within this type of play - Interactive Q&A to ask your burning questions - And much more Passionate Entanglement: The Dynamics of Rough Body Play Enter a realm where primal instincts meet exploration and the human body’s resilience is both celebrated and respected. This comprehensive class is designed to guide participants through the nuanced layers of rough body play, emphasizing consent, communication, and technique. Learn advanced safety protocols including how to identify and mitigate risks, enabling you to engage in play with confidence and security. We will cover themhandling, pressure points, punching, and kicking. Learn all about different impact zones and vulnerable areas to exploit and get the upperhand. Enjoy dynamic demonstrations of various rough body play tactics, including primal wrestling, pinning, body manipulation and more. Explore the power exchange element to your relationship through body-to-body experiences in an exciting and refreshing way. Understand the psychological and physical aspect of this type of play and learn how to use that against your partner. Whether you’re brand new in your journey or a seasoned player, you’ll walk away with new perspectives and tricks for your arsenal. Dive even deeper: - Understand the anatomy and physiology to ensure a safe environment - The appeal and benefits of RBP - Aftercare strategies to reconnect and attend to physical and emotional needs - Modulating intensity and reading your partner’s responses - Negotiation practices specific to rough play - Discover how catharsis can play a role - And much more! BDSM as a Healing Space: Techniques for Trauma Survivors This trauma‑informed workshop is designed for those who want to explore kink within a healthy, intentional space. We’ll discuss how and why these activities can support a healing journey as well as recognizing when it’s not the right tool. Discover methods to dip your toes back into play or find alternative ways to connect and experience pleasure without certain pressures or someone else present. Let’s talk about building safe containers with clear boundaries and check‑ins that center your autonomy. Learn how to have effective negotiations that can help ease nervousness or hesitancy. Gain insights into crafting a care plan including grounding techniques to manage activated feelings. Explore somatic exercises to get you back in your body and stay present in the moment. We will also cover how anxious, avoidant, or disorganized patterns can show up in a scene. Our time is not just for those who have experienced SA but anything under the trauma umbrella including systemic, generational, and developmental. Walk away with effective ways to engage with and support a partner who has this history. Dive deeper into topics including: - Healthy vs. unhealthy dynamics to spot red and green flags early - Exploring roles and headspaces for healing - Understanding and navigating triggers - Therapeutic concepts such as window of tolerance, titration, and pacing - Identifying shame spirals and interrupting them - Managing post-play drop - And much more!